SIX OF WANDS WISDOM FOR WHEN WE ARE HARD ON OURSELVES
We all have things in life that we wish we could improve upon or wish we could do better. We may look back at a recent experience and feel bad about ourselves when we see how we wish we could be versus how we are!
We all know what perfection should look like and then we compare ourselves and see how we have fallen short. How do we handle that? That’s was my thought as I drew a Tarot Card for guidance.
I don’t know why but I always think of the word INITIATION when I see this card. And that makes me think of the book with that title about the Initiations in Egypt–probably soul memories triggered.
[The book: INITIATION by Elizabeth Haich].
We all know that initiations are difficult and sometimes impossible to perfect… its a right of passage… like walking on hot coals or a bed of nails… we’re just supposed to make it through alive and intact, not perfect the state so that we remain in that hot coal or bed of nails state. The focus is on indoctrination and instruction into a state of mind–an awareness creator so-to-speak.
Anyway, sometimes enduring an initiation is in itself the success! Perhaps we aren’t meant to conquer the fire fires but to just get through them without being burned too badly! Maye it’s not so much about controlling the raging river but rather staying on top of it. Maybe it’s not as much about controlling the pool full of crocodiles but just getting through the crock pond alive to reach the other side! Initiations are like that.
Should we feel back about the anxiety and panic that we may feel about being tossed in a crocodile pond?
I think we should feel great about getting ourselves through it any way we can!
The heck with trying to master the crocs–that’s not what it’s about.
Its about keeping one’s head together well enough to survive–that’s the way initiation goes!
The 6 of Wands always brings the message that after the initiation self-confidence will return and other problems or anxieties will be easier than those major initiations, once passed! One feels vindicated but has to give credit to help received along the way–the Divine Assistance.
The wisdom of the 6 of Wands reminds us that life’s initiations are difficult and that we shouldn’t be hard on ourselves— we just need to get ourselves out of the pool of crocodiles and to the other side any way we can–whatever works.
Success is simply getting through the initiation–passing the test, enduring he difficulty and living to tell about it!
The benefits come later.
I don’t know about you but drawing this card and applying it to the “pond full of crocs” type of situation in my life helps me to feel better about it!
Thank you to for Divine Assistance and to the Angels of Tarot for giving me much needed insight and I hope something here is helpful for you too!